Start with a sincere desire to change.Understand that you yourself will be easier to build relationships with others and accept life's circumstances, when you remove the excessive nature of their assertiveness, austerity and rigidity.
Remove from some of the responsibility.You may have too much on taking, seek to control all the processes that occur in your life, and the absence of gentleness in your character is the result of your position.Try to shift some errands well other members of your family or colleagues, and you will see that the world will not collapse, and it is not to fail without your direct involvement in all.
Be kind to people.Let sarcasm and cynicism will remain in the past.Instead of evil jokes and jabs to the friends make them compliments.Think about the feelings of others and try not to hurt their feelings.By myself too should be treated gently and with love.Get rid of the habit of too much to criticize their own mistakes and shortcomings.
Find your example of softness and femininity.This may be a girl friend or a movie star, the main thing that it was the epitome of the qualities that you feel the lack.Watch an example and try to adopt some of the features, habits, look, smile, words and behavior.It is important to understand the essence and philosophy of true women.
communicate more with women.Perhaps the lack of softness is the result of work in the men's team, or education in an atmosphere of absolute rigor.Meet more often with friends, start a conversation on the classic women's issues.
Feel free to express their emotions.You should not be considered a sign of weakness rushes to hug a person or a kind word to say to him.Also, there is nothing to be ashamed to cry over sad sentimental book or movie.
ask for help from other people, especially in the stronger sex.Sometimes it's nice to seem weak woman, feel it.Especially because there can be a situation where you really need a man's strength.So take a moment and ask about it.
audits of his wardrobe.Remember that external changes occur to help inner metamorphosis.Therefore, rewound in his closet more feminine dresses and jewelry.