set boundaries



If you are annoying colleague with whom the need for labor often have to face, immediately try to establish with him a certain border communication.It is not necessary to show courtesy and to move closer to the person who you do not like it, you did not have to.Instead, keep a distance with the employee.Communicate strictly on paper.

When you do not like that person violates your personal space, just report it.Say what you will communicate much more comfortable at a certain distance, and ask them to continue to maintain a specified distance.Maybe a couple of times you have to remind a person of your agreement, but in the end, if before you adequate person, you will achieve the desired effect.

Are you annoyed manner of your colleagues to communicate.If it shows lack of restraint and allow themselves to become personal, do not hesitate to upset him, and remind you that you are at work, which should show less emotion, especially negative ones.Do not be afraid of conflict.If you show calmness and tact, the truth will be on your side.In an extreme case, you can ask the guide to put you in link with others.

Be wiser



Try to stay calm, even if the behavior of your colleagues takes you out of yourself.Imagine a wall between you, which does not allow the negativity coming from a man to reach you.Perhaps this visualization will help you remain indifferent in the presence of your annoying personality.Do not succumb to provocations from the side.Be stronger and wiser.

Try to better understand the person who you do not like.Maybe you are too critical of him.Try to put yourself in the place of your colleagues.Think about what he can be objective reasons to behave in a certain way.Be tolerant of others.Maybe you are annoying in person that he is completely unlike you.Such an attitude is not entirely fair.

Do not take to heart what happens to you while performing work duties.Be aware that the work - not your whole life.Remember that you are a free man and has a right to change their place of work or profession.Sometimes the understanding of reducing strain and helps to easier to relate to people with which we communicate on duty.